in conversation, but you have to watch it around a cub. Don’t completely stay quiet about what you’ve done!
Your body won’t bounce back the same; and if he wanted a party girl, he’d be with one, instead of you. The greatest thing about dating someone younger is that he has so many places to show you that you’d never know about otherwise, and visa versa. You’ve had a longer life and inevitably accomplished more than your cub.It’s natural to reference your own history, experiences, victories etc.When he asks you about your history, don’t be afraid to share.Like a crop top or too much makeup, catty behavior instantly ages you.Too many cougars hit the gym obsessively, whittling their bodies down to nothing but bone. He won’t know as much about money management or interior design or even table manners as you do.
His apartment might be messy and his resume might be all botched up. If you lie about having children or send them away to visit their aunt anytime your cub comes over, everybody will feel guilty.Cougars are all the rage for men in their twenties through forties (although the latter are kidding themselves—they’re no young cubs).But just what is it about women in the 40 plus group that is such a turn on?You probably don’t have the abs you used to back in the day, so get acquainted with flowy tops.The good news is your girls probably grew with age and maybe a little weight gain elsewhere. Play the music you like when he comes over, suggest movies from your youth on movie night, and for goodness sake do not keep up with the Kardashians.Others point to increased, rather than decreased, opportunities.