There are two main goals for a first message: to let her know of your interest, and to convince her that you are an interesting non creepy guy that isn't going to take advantage of her the first chance you get. "First messages that are only one word, incomplete sentences, full of profanity or just generic comments about my looks are a big turn-off. The problem is: The crowd that bothers to surf the forums of this place, have a completely different mentality than the crowd that hasn't even seen the "forums" button.
And this is why men are from Mars and women are from Venus. It takes 5 seconds to click your profile and read the interests section.
There are women sitting here telling you guys what to do to be successful in writing to females on here, but you're going to stick with the "hi, how are you's" because you don't want to waste time?
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Honestly, we’ve been using some of these for years and they’re all pretty great.
Let's start with a few examples of messages I am NOT in any way inclined to respond to, yet receive every. just enough for them to look at my picture, if they like what they see, maybe they will respond. WE CAN SPOT THEM FROM A MILE AWAY "Hi, you're pretty, we have stuff in common, write back." NO!
Even if I don't think a guy is a good match but send me a thougthful me a message, I'll write back, even if it's just to thank him for taking the time to write and wish him well on his search.
But how do I know you’re not actually a crazy cat lady who stays in all weekend to watch Bravo 24/7?
Early nights in bed before 9pm aside, what is your ideal weekend like?
The most common question we receive from men is how to write a good online dating first email.
Only a small percentage of emails that are sent by men are ever opened by women. What if, out of that crowd of cows, one of them was bright purple?
That's what the perfect first message would look like. Mostly it's just a bunch of pics with his buddies at a bar and the 'About Me' section says "Ask me and I'll tell you" or a series of random letters to take up space. More often than not..do not write something that's sucks......although I have sent messages that I think suck big time. Good profiles will make a women more confident to initiate after all she will have something to comment on.