As we approached Chicago, I called him from a pay phone (this was pre-cell phone era) to let him know when we were arriving.He sounded very stressed; he said that we could no longer stay with him because his mother had been recently mugged by a black man and would not stand to have a black man in the house. The fact that she didn't get pregnant was luck for both of you.
He felt so bad that he said he would pay for a hotel.I told him he didn't have to do that, but he insisted.which i mean when i had protected sex for the first time, her period changed and she still hasn't got it, she did a pregnancy test and came out negative. You sound like a guy who really does care about your girlfriend, so do the right thing and get her a home pregnancy test or better yet, like I said earlier, get her to a Family Planning clinic and get her tested for pregnancy, and if she is not pregnant, and you are gong to continue to have sex PLEASE have her get on a reliable form of birth control! PLEASE, PLEASE find a Family Planning Clinic in your city, and like I said in my last comment, they have them in every city in the US. but from there we had sex for a couple of times now and they were with condom,. i don't know what to think anymore Here's what I think. Go online to find one or you can ask your school guidence counselor, or call social services, but she needs to go on reliable birth control like the pill or the Depo shot, and don't worry about the side effects or the hormones, birth control is safe for healthy young women. it was a small amount of bleeding but it stopped the same day she had it. The first thing that you need to do is get a pregnancy test, and I recommend going to a planned parenthood clinic or whatever free clinic that you have for family planning near you! anyway i can't afford them, may be expensive, here in the state California, Visalia. you sound like you are really trying to protect your girlfriend, and that is a good thing!
It does not matter how early you pull out , it does not matter weather you ejaculate inside her or not, once your penis enters her vagina, or for that fact gets near her vagina you can excreat sperm and she can get pregnant!!! i don't want her to get side effects of those birth control pills. I recall much argument that night among us four travelers about what my friend should have done or what each of us would have done, but I never blamed him.Each generation can only try to make fewer mistakes than the last. I never thought I had a type, but I had also never dated anyone who wasn't white before I met my current girlfriend.but then from there, couple weeks ago, we had sex and i had a condom, then from there the second sex activity i didn't have any so i did it with no protection,. and at that time she still hasn't had her period yet. You two are too young to be having sex until you have some information. Thirdly, if she hasn't had her period since Oct, this is a major concern. Be sure its not outdated and that she does the test as soon as she gets out of bed in the morning. But i didn't Ejaculate in her, i pulled out way before to make sure. Its the best place for a teen girl to go, she should find one and make an appt. Expand..remember, if she does go on the pill, use a back up form of birthcontrol like condoms and foam for the first month that she is on the pill. keep me informed if you want about how things are going and if you have any more questions just ask everyone here is here to help you! then our last sex we had was on the december 1st which is on a saturday in the morning unprotected, and went in her really deep, roughly as you can say, is this why its causing her period to come late? First of all, pulling out is not a method of birth control. but ok i will have her have another pregnancy test and i can't afford birth control pills. You do not have to ejaculate in her to get her pregnant. Its a shame they charge so much for the pill, but planned parenthood doesn't. and umm i guess we were to rough, after that sexual activity when she got home she called me and said she saw a stain on her underwear and had little bit of blood,. Love their noses too." I quickly chugged the rest of my beer so the date could be over.