They sort of tend to lose their grip on reality, and walk around with an aura of unbelievable conceit most times, so the nicer more genuine guys tend to get lost in the mix of dogs. One thing I learned about Internet sex is you have to be fairly pushy and fast.
In the past I have had that happen to me and in a couple of cases I have beat out other guys ... There's a bit of irony on how to play the cyberdating game when you compare it to what most girls want. And while girls want a gentleman, they tend to go for the agreesive dude first and are all playing games ^BS to get sex games..... Sure won't be anyone or anything goodto come out of your nonsense Guys like you are why the decent women stop meeting guysfrom online sites.
The guy had spent a great deal of money for the meeting, which he had flown across country to do. But if it isn't you that the photo represents,ie an old photo or someone elses, then it isn't honest and honesty reflects character. I think it's rude for sure, but not entirely sure it's a game either.
If someone plays games like this, be happy they didn't meet you.
If you are truly a 'good man', do not expect to find love in the abyss of undifferentiated nothingness of cyber dating.
Now if your looking to have sex, that will be an easy find, just 'play' that 'game', by its own rules and you will find your are all playing games ^BS to get sex games..... Sure won't be anyone or anything goodto come out of your nonsense Guys like you are why the decent women stop meeting guysfrom online sites.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...
We've exchanged some emails, chatted a few times on MSN, and made plans to meet for a coffee or a drink. Contrast this with the number of women who put "no games" on their profile or their Craig's List ad.
The day before (or of) our date, she bails on me with some excuse about being busy with work or not feeling well, and says "let me know if you still want to meet sometime! Any one or two incidents and I would believe I'm just unlucky.
"Being the optimist that I am, I reply "No problem, I understand. but with the number of times this has happened recently (and over the last year), I'm starting to wonder if I missed a memo. Women, if you're not interested in someone, don't make them think you are! I think its mainly because they could be talking to several guys, possibly one they're really interested in and we sort of get pushed aside along the way at times....it comes with the whole net thing man..... I don't even ask to meet, if they want they can ask me, call me, and you shouldnt take it personally or seriously either.
It could be many things but...of it should be taken seriously I think. They are not really lying to you but they are pursing more than one option.
Integrity will always be a rare item in human nature; just take a look at our so called leaders in politics and business. The ego dominates in most of us, and thus we all are blinded by that poison.