Now that you’ve dealt with the baggage from the past, you can start to move forward. Logically, you might know that being overweight doesn’t stop you being happy but obviously, there’s some part of subconscious that hasn’t quite caught on.The reason that you were insecure about lack of experience with women / inability to pickup is because in some long forgotten point in time, you thought it was necessary for you to be happy and fulfilled in life. You can’t change your subconscious by chanting into a mirror every morning or meditating your way through it.This is something that can only be achieved through action.
Many enjoy cannibalism, necrophilia and keep trophy-like body parts as mementos of their work. Sometimes they like to return to grave sites and crime scenes to fantasize about previous kills.
Many killers like to insert themselves in the investigations of their crimes and some like to taunt the police with letters or carefully placed pieces of evidence at the crime scene.
Here’s how you can take control and live your life on your terms, regardless of your insecurities.
But just because everyone has them, it doesn’t mean that you have to continue to let them rule your life.
PLEASE GET YOURSELF A NEW BROWSER THAT READS FRAMES. BUT FIRST, PLEASE, PLEASE, GO AND GET YOURSELF A NEW BROWSER FROM NETSCAPE OR MICROSOFT.
So, to kick off this process of dealing with your insecurities, write out a list of everything that you’re insecure about. You’re afraid of being judged and rejected based on your insecurities.
Until you have something real and concrete to work with, you’re just going to spend your days imagining and thinking without ever making any progress.
By telling people that you’re insecure about your receding hair line, then you have a situation you can work with.
And then when you come up with an imaginary situation that you can’t solve, you just decide not to do what you want anyway.
But here’s the catch: you can never solve an imaginary situation because it doesn’t exist.
There’s no point in pretending that everyone you meet is going to gently and calmly reassure you that you’re a valuable part of their life and that your insecurities don’t matter. They’re baring their real colours for you to see so you don’t have to worry about what they’re thinking about you any more.