Option #2: Decide that you won’t be able to adjust to the above reality of a reduced standard of living and say goodbye to the man/woman you love. Let’s take the example of your parents’ decision of allowing you to marry your girlfriend/boyfriend.
His parents even want dowry which my parents are unable to provide. On the average I get about three such queries every day and they make me sad and angry. I feel – what in the name of God are we doing to our younger generation? It’s not about choosing your boyfriend or girlfriend over your parents. If neither you nor your boyfriend/girlfriend is earning – work on that before working on anything else.How can some dogmatic parents have so little regard for the happiness of – not a random guy on the street but – their own child! If your parents are paying for you, you’d better do as they say.The risk of kidnap is especially hazardous for visitors because terror groups target from overseas for the high profile publicity, and the high ransom they can obtain from relatively wealthy families. The following locations carry a higher risk of kidnapping and should be avoided: Early in November 2016, the US Government issued a warning to its citizens, and, by implication, any foreign visitors, traveling to the southern part of Cebu island in The Philippines.The warning says the notorious kidnap and ransom rebels, Abu Sumilon island resorts.Other reports say President is considering imposing martial law across all of the Philippines, although at time of writing this had not been confirmed.
The military is an ever-present force in the Philippines, mainly due to the high risk of terrorism.
Travel in groups and stay away from areas that have seen an increase in recent kidnapping incidents.
There are plenty of beautiful locations throughout the Philippines that are trouble-free.
I belong to caste A, my boyfriend belongs to caste B. None of our parents are OK with an inter-caste marriage. Our parents take the reactions of their relatives and neighbours way more seriously than our feelings. Not happy, but happier, than making any other choice. People facing pressures from their parents are usually young people just starting out in their careers.
They’re telling us about the loss of face in their respective societies that they’ll have to suffer if this marriage happens. We want to marry with those precious blessings only and we’re ready to wait till we get them. Will it not make you unhappy to irk your parents by marrying against their wish? Will it not make you unhappy to say goodbye forever to the person you love? Be selfish and choose the option that makes you the least unhappy, and then let go. In most cases they’ve either not started earning, or are still financially partly dependent on their parents.
This is one of Southeast Asia's most beautiful destinations, the Philippines offers the best of everything.