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She says Ansari brushed her off at first, but after he realized they both brought the same kind of camera to the event, an old model from the 80s, he was impressed.
’ and I go, ‘Oh, yeah, sure,’ and he goes, ‘Well, if I poured you another glass of wine now, would it count as our second date? “I said I don’t want to feel forced because then I’ll hate you, and I’d rather not hate you,” she said.’” He then poured her a glass and handed it to her. Grace says she spent around five minutes in the bathroom, collecting herself in the mirror and splashing herself with water. And then, as he rose to prominence, he focused less on his own sexual disenfranchisement and more on pressing societal issues like racism and sexual assault, a move that’s earned him tons of praise.“I stopped moving my lips and turned cold.” Whether Ansari didn’t notice Grace’s reticence or knowingly ignored it is impossible for her to say.“I know I was physically giving off cues that I wasn’t interested.When Ansari told her he was going to grab a condom within minutes of their first kiss, Grace voiced her hesitation explicitly. Everything was pretty much touched and done within ten minutes of hooking up, except for actual sex.” She says Ansari began making a move on her that he repeated during their encounter.
“I said something like, ‘Whoa, let’s relax for a sec, let’s chill.’” She says he then resumed kissing her, briefly performed oral sex on her, and asked her to do the same thing to him. “The move he kept doing was taking his two fingers in a V-shape and putting them in my mouth, in my throat to wet his fingers, because the moment he’d stick his fingers in my throat he’d go straight for my vagina and try to finger me.” Grace called the move “the claw.” Ansari also physically pulled her hand towards his penis multiple times throughout the night, from the time he first kissed her on the countertop onward.“I wasn’t really even thinking of that, I didn’t want to be engaged in that with him.But he kept asking, so I said, ‘Next time.’ And he goes, ‘Oh, you mean second date?Grace says she sensed Ansari was eager for them to leave.“When the waiter came over he quickly asked for the check and he said like, ‘Let’s get off this boat.’” She recalls there was still wine in her glass and more left in the bottle he ordered. “Like, he got the check and then it was bada-boom, bada-bing, we’re out of there.” They walked the two blocks back to his apartment building, an exclusive address on Tri Be Ca’s Franklin Street, where Taylor Swift has a place too.“He said something along the lines of, ‘How about you hop up and take a seat? “In a second, his hand was on my breast.” Then he was undressing her, then he undressed himself.