The twenty something year old women can date the twenty something year old guy , as well as the thirty year olds.As a result, women in their thirties are in this weird relationship limbo and are left to compete with the twenty year olds for the remaining guys in our age group.3) A woman under 40 who discovers that men her own age prefer prepubescent, siliconed, bimbos to educated women their own age.
These woman, including myself (eh hem), are amazing, godly, beautiful, loving, and wise women. I have also noticed at my church there are many women and men in their 20s that are single as well.
Here is the problem: Guys our age (in their 30’s) can and tend to date the 20 something year olds if they are single, while the rest of them are either married, getting married, or getting out of marriage.
His younger brother, on the other hand, definitely more my speed. We have all heard of the urban “Cougar”, but some have you have not encountered the term puma.
The fact that I was attracted and intrigued by his younger brother, does that make me a puma? A compilation of definitions from urban describe a “Puma” as: 1) An attractive woman in her late 20s or early 30s.
The cougar concept has been used in television shows, advertising, and film.
The 2007 film Cougar Club was dedicated to the subject and, in spring 2009, TV Land aired a reality show called The Cougar where women would pick a date.Let me guess what some of these excuses might be as to why you don’t want to date someone that is younger and from church.You don’t want to date someone from church because: “I don’t want to put the friendship at risk, If we break-up, it will be really awkward at church, I don’t want the other person to not come to church because we are no longer dating, If we attend the same home group, I don’t want to be the one to leave my home group, I don’t want to get hurt and then have to see him every Sunday, I am at church to worship, not to date, etc.etc.” Some excuses as to why you don’t want to date a younger man: “too immature”, “not enough depth”, “silly”, “my parents won’t approve”, “He will make me feel old”, “he will leave me for a younger woman”, “I am too strong for him”, “the men at church are very weak”…blah blah blahhhhhhh!I AM NOT saying that you should date ANY younger guy (or ANY older woman).Well, before you leave in a huff, read on and let me present my case.