There's no waiting for x amount of dates after a date to contact the other person after a date. When you have a problem, he is there to help you with some insight from personal experience. Just because someone is flirting with you, doesn't mean he will be insecure and begin worrying whether you will leave him or not.
It's not always fun to hear he's "been there done that," but it helps when it comes to understanding. He will understand you're young and are still figuring things out. An older man knows what you chose him and why you are going to stay with him.
He knows what he wants and if you're not it, he won't waste yours or his time.
If he wants to talk to you, he will text or call you. Because he is older than you, he's been where you're at and can relate to what you are going through. An older man is confident with himself and trusts you.
There are also, however, some drawbacks to be aware of.
Let’s look at both so you can decide whether dating an older man is appealing to you or not.
Studies have shown that girls are typically more mature than guys their own age. From the first unofficial date to now, I have always had my door opened for me, my chair pushed in, my food ordered for, and my coat taken on and off.
We need someone at the same level as us maturity-wise and an older man is just that. It will be like making love every time, not just casual sex. Even when he has suggested I bring a jacket and I don't, he gives me his. Money isn't everything, but who are you kidding when you say you don't need money?
He will be far past even thinking about joking that he likes you.
If you want someone to have a deep conversation with, you found your man.
By this time, he's learned how to make and save money.
They know what they want (or should) so there are no head games or texting games to be played.
Typically, older gentlemen can carry on great intellectual conversations. He's most likely more well-read than a college boy who plays video games all day. If you're worried about judgment and you really do love each other for the right reasons, most people will eventually accept your relationship and if they don't, you don't need those people in your life.