Are you constantly worried about others being mad at you while ignoring that you have feelings about the situation as well?
You may think you're a ninja when it comes to hiding your insecurities, but weird signs of low self-esteem are sometimes so sneaky that you may not even realize what you're doing.
Everything from your body language to the way you act after sex gives others clues about your sense of self worth.
If you take a hard look at your life and your habits, you may discover that the way you live your life screams "I have low self-esteem." But knowing is the first step to improving your self-esteem and finding the inner strength to live a life that makes you genuinely happy.
If someone bumps into you on the street, do you apologize?
Comparing yourself to others and living for approval are killers of both joy and self-esteem.
What do do instead: Stop comparing yourself to others.Then she looked up, saw that I was a 'white guy', her jaw dropped, and she gathered up all the kids again, and herded them all in the other direction back down the train car.So...; get over your 'apparent' minority-ness, and understand that the same folks exist that think you may be just the most handsome guy they've ever seen... And to be very cliche, do not judge a book by it's cover.Do you take things one step further and even say you don't know why they happened because you're not worthy?The truth is, you probably worked your ass off to get where you are.People with low self-esteem often suffer from a faulty self-image, or an inaccurate view of their worth.