"The common misconception with ABDL (adult baby diaper lovers) is that they are into inappropriate things—like having an interest in children—and this couldn't be more wrong," said Pup Jackson, a twentysomething diaper lover and kink educator. Sometimes it's a way for a person to disconnect from their adult life and become someone else.With DLs, they aren't necessarily into age play—they enjoy diapers and the way they feel, much like people enjoy rubber, Lycra, or other materials.After this crisis, he agreed to work things out, but then I found adult-size diapers in the house—and not for the first time! Then I found adult-size diapers in the house again this morning and freaked out.
Recently I've experimented with long-term edges, where I'll withhold coming for days or weeks while still maintaining a daily masturbation practice.
I love living on that horny edge, and I've even learned to love the ache in my balls. Am I setting myself up for prostate/testicular trouble down the road?
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As I’ve previously mentioned several times, South Korea has a wide and varied pay for play sex industry.
Please give me advice on how to make him understand that this is not him! "There's a fair bit of controversy over whether people can suppress fetishistic desires like this—and whether it's healthy to ask them to do so," said Dr.
David Ley, a clinical psychologist, author, and AASECT-certified sex therapist.
So if you can't live with the diaper lover you married—if you can't accept his kink, allow him to indulge it on his own, and refrain from blowing up when you stumble onto any evidence—do that diaper-loving husband of yours a favor and divorce him. David Ley on Twitter @Dr David Ley and Pup Jackson on Twitter @pupjacksonbitez.
I'm a 33-year-old man, and for years I've practiced edging.
To understand her husband, MADDL needs to ask questions about why her husband enjoys diapers and figure out how to deal with it—because a lot of people want/need these kinds of outlets in their life." Okay, MADDL, now it's time for me to share my thoughts with you, but—Christ almighty—I hardly know where to begin.
"Great guys" can be into diapers; this is not who your husband "chooses to be," since people don't choose their kinks any more than they choose their sexual orientation; outing your husband to his mother was unforgivable and could ultimately prove to be a fatal-to-your-marriage violation of trust; a counselor isn't going to be able to reach into your husband's head and yank out his kink.
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