She craves to be treated like any other woman, but she fully expects her date to ask inappropriate sex- and TS-related questions, because it happens all the time. She responds as a woman, therefore she regards herself as a woman. The pre-op TS will often adopt an image that is clearly, unmistakably feminine as she seeks to define herself as a woman. Interestingly enough, this approach to pleasing a man and adopting a feminine appearance is rather sadly lacking today among genetic women. I am actually going on a date with a very classy TS next week.
But being female for her is likely a whole lot more difficult than it is for the GG. Imagine how men she meets react when she tells them she is a TS who hasn't had the sex change. Probably she will not care to dress in a way that could be construed as masculine. The TS wants to immerse herself into something warmly and clearly feminine, which accounts for the clearly feminine clothing and heels. Finding a man who will accept her as a woman with a dick is very difficult indeed. When my girlfriend and I go off to the movies or a restaurant, she is almost always the only female in the place in a blouse and skirt, or a dress -- and both the men and women notice her. They want their women to dress in a more feminine manner too, and it isn't happening for them. A TS is very likely looking for a straight man, for it is a man who will make her feel like the woman she is, which is something to which most any GG can attest. There is often friction between the transgendered and gay communities. I hope to take her to a very nice dinner and just enjoy her company.
A lot of guys who show interest in TS's are, in fact, bisexual. TS's tell me that most of the guys who contact them are, in fact, bisexual or bi-curious.
For the guys just seeking a sexual experience, there are plenty of shemale escorts available who will happily provide an exciting experience for a fee, without any danger of commitment. Use a search engine, search under keywords "shemale escorts (enter name of your city or state)" -- odds are you will find what you need.
There is a special class of woman out there, with a different set of attributes than the "genetic girl," or GG. Her look, her voice, her movement, her laugh, her smile, her scent, and all those other feminine cues that trigger interest and a masculine response from a guy. Therefore, if a straight man finds himself interested in a pre-op transsexual and is experiencing some confusion as a result, then he needs to consider exactly what it is about her that is attracting him. A TS who hangs out online gets a million instant messages and emails about sexual encounters.
It's the transsexual woman, or "TS." A woman who used to be a male. If it's her femininity, then he's not responding like a gay man would, and thus shouldn't worry about whether he's "turning gay." If the guy can accept that he is attracted to a somewhat different kind of woman and still wants to pursue it, take it just one step at a time. A TS who has the genuine sensibilities of the female will not respond to sexual adventure proposals any better than most GG's will.
His girl will probably go all out to look very desirable. For those men who find themselves attracted to a pre-op TS but wary of the prospect of sex, here's a solution. I'm sure any guy thinking of sex with a pre-op transsexual woman has quickly inventoried all the places he can stick his cock. And a TS with the sensibilities of a genetic woman is very unlikely to want to fuck a guy in the ass or stuff it down his throat anyway, so a straight guy need not be concerned about it. Thanks and I will tell you how the date went." -from a man."That was one of the most awesome articles I have read.
Assuming that guy has read the earlier remarks in Section 2, then the solution is to think of having sex with a TS as just a plumbing issue. The guy has a girlfriend with a simple plumbing issue. I myself have limited experience in this matter, I have only dated one, and it didn't last very long. They seek to deny (to themselves, probably) that sex with a person who has both tits and a dick is homosexual in nature, when the guy is sucking that dick or getting fucked by it. They say these men are often looking for a same-sex experience but packaged in such a way that they have deniability.Thank you for putting most of my thoughts into print.I think you should clean up the choice of words a tad, but I think it's wonderful. Homepage for Transgender & Transexual Dating Ask a Girl for a Date: Your First Email to a TS Girl Bad Date Story: What a Putz! One guy told me dating a so-called independent woman "is like dating your brother." Who among the women of today delight in being extremely (and classically) feminine? Others find solace with a pre-op transsexual because she used to be a male and has a far better understanding of what it means to be male than most GG's ever will. In other words, treat her like he would any GG date, at a pace that he can handle, given his concerns. This quote came to me this evening as I was writing this article.