ESPECIALLY women, who have psychic tentacles that can feel out any part of your personality that doesn't seem to match your behavior.Look, I don't want to get too philosophical here, but the truth is, Your identity is the CORE of who you are - your true PERSONALITY.And then later on down the road I could be more "real" with her.
Most of your mind evolved so that you could tell when someone was being sincere with you, so that you could make a decision about who to trust - or not.This isn't a life-or-death decision today, but it used to be, back when you had to know that your friend Grok wouldn't abandon you in the middle of a mammoth hunt.As if you're entire value as a man is based on a skill you've never been taught.Just like the example I just gave you of the guitar style I was trying to find, there are TONS of "systems" and outer game techniques out there that work the same way.So you see, the secret is not trying to camouflage your attempts to get a woman interested in you, or try to sneak in with some hypnotic technique, or hide behind a "pickup" routine.
Quite simply because YOU CAN'T HIDE YOURSELF from a woman.It took me years to finally "get" this into my thick skull. And she can do this in the first 2 or 3 minutes of a conversation, almost without fail.This is what I figured out: Women have a highly specialized social radar. And here's something else: She has to know you're SINCERE. evolve so you could solve tricky Algebra problems, or memorize plays from Shakespeare.I'd talk to women about my hobbies and what I thought was interesting, but I never seemed to get anywhere.When I was on a date, I'd ask a bunch of questions - because I'm supposed to show interest in her in some way.Women have this exact same specialized brain wiring, but it's even more effective at figuring out men.