Dating your second cousin legal

I said that my future husband would just take my car and I would take his.

He told me that if we marry that that car switching wouldn’t work (he doesn’t like small cars) and that I better buy a car that could hold the entire family (including his family). I can tell you right off the bat that I can’t tell you what the best move is going to be, but I can understand the guy’s reluctance to make it official… For a guy who’s already been married and has custody for one of his two children, I can imagine why he would be very cautious in making commitments with a new woman.

All I can say is (from what you’ve told me) is that he sounds like he probably had a rough time with his first marriage and wants to be extra careful this time around.

Or maybe he believes that the dating dynamic works a lot better for him than the committed relationship dynamic at this point in time.

One thing I said was that if you’ve been seeing a guy for 3 months and he’s not calling you his girlfriend, chances are he won’t.

Now, in the context of when I said it, the gist of the situation was the girl wanted more and the guy seemed comfortable where he was.

At the very least, if you can see it from this point of view it will probably help you decide how long you’re willing to wait to find out.

I’ll touch upon a few things that I’ve said in previous Ask a Guy posts.

But I believe that things can change as time goes on.

I can’t guarantee it in your situation specifically, but generally speaking things can work out as long as the guy is working through his issues.

It still raises the question of how long that will take, but it’s a much different situation than an apathetic guy passively seeing a girl with little effort or interest in the future of the relationship. Try your best to be rational and to avoid jumping to conclusions…

Having a title sounds like it would be reassuring, but if you were forced to choose between having an amazing relationship I would say that it would be a good move for you to take a look at what your thoughts are on the matter. I say this because when you mentioned that you proposed leaving the relationship after he didn’t want to call you his girlfriend, it struck me as kind of an extreme, all-or-nothing type of response.

For all I know, he might have committed to his ex-wife and once he did, it was all downhill.