Maybe it’s because the physical nature of attractiveness changes when you get older, or maybe they know that being “hot and sexy” is more a function of your personality than how you look.
Whatever the reason, most older adults will tell you that how someone looks is doesn’t matter much in their search to find a companion.
And always being the lone single person when your married friends want to catch up for dinner starts to become a little tiresome.More than any other activity, dinner is where older adults feel the isolation of being alone most strongly.Once you get into your fifties and beyond, the actual number of your age becomes less and less significant.Far more important is what shape you are in, how healthy you are, what activities you can do. If you’re active and like going for long walks and playing golf, you’re going to be much more interested in the fit and energetic 82-year-old who can share your activities than the 65-year-old waiting on a hip replacement who can no longer walk long distances. The other stunning aspect of dating for young people is how much looks matter.Because no matter how old you get, one thing about human nature never changes: nobody likes feeling lonely.
Older adults, however, look for companionship in a way that’s very different from their younger counterparts.We’d be lying if we said that appearance wasn’t important at all to the over-55 demographic, but it turns out to be a much lower priority.Maybe this is because older adults are wise enough to know that looks have very little to do with whether someone is going to be a kind, loving and caring companion.Some of our Messianic Jewish singles attend Messianic congregations or synagogues where Messianic Judaism is the focus.Others are part of Jews for Jesus, attend churches, or are part of The Holy Land experience.Take this opportunity to enjoy a Messianic singles membership where you meet Messianic Jewish Singles and Believers from around the world.