Earlier this year, writing for Motherboard, Daniel Stuckey proclaimed Tinder—the geo-location hook up app that matches users together only after both have approved of each other—to be the end of online dating as we know it.He touted its minimalism and straight-to-the-point approach. Profiles lack the basic information typically provided on other dating sites and apps, leaving users to select a match solely on looks.
Getting more quality dates with the women you want to meet comes down to optimizing your profile and messages to the largest degree possible. And now, I’ve got the If your ice-breaker fails to trigger some kind of pleasurable emotion, your response rate will plummet. If it’s fun for her to think about and answer, her mind has already associated you with positive feelings – and that kind of emotional connection is essential if she’s going to say “yes” to a date.
Making her laugh is one of the best ways to spark an instant connection.
Why not ask her a personality-based question that lets her think and talk about her #1 favorite topic?
Answering it will make her feel good, which is a point in your favor.
things that women often crave: Research shows that talking about yourself is inherently pleasurable.
Self-disclosure stimulates the same areas of the brain that are associated with motivation and reward.
Hobbies and interests aren’t the only subjects you can target to make you messages seem tailored specifically to her.
For instance, you could send this “personalized” message to any woman with an unusual name: Before you go nuts sending all these opening lines to everyone you’ve matched with, it’s worth mentioning that different messages play better with different age groups.
Attraction is a complex formula, and that’s why there are no Tinder lines that work great for every guy on every women.
If you want to maximize your results, you have to keep track of which lines work for you, and which don’t.
In fact, Hinge’s research confirmed what our number crunchers here at Vi DA already knew – taking her age into consideration when choosing what type of message to send pays off with higher response rates.