Or so I other night, I get a call from one of my best friends. Is it really a golden rule that you don't date your friends exes? Do some reflecting and I’m certain you will find a pattern.She tells me that she and my ex have been spending a lot of time alone together, that romantic feelings have developed between them, that they slept together the night before... Love, C actually isn't cause for you to get mad at your BFF. You are growing up and it is time to take the next step into life.
As long as you respect her wishes, you won’t lose her as a friend and you’ll know for sure whether to date the ex or not. She might get pissed at first, but she’ll get over it. Is your best friend in a happy, committed relationship? You’ve got the green light to date him if you want to. If she’s really your best friend, she’ll just want you to be happy too. If it was never anything serious and it didn’t end badly, she’s probably not going to care. The odds of her getting upset having him around are high. At the very least, wait a while so she can move on. It sucks to let go of a long-time friendship, but she’s drawn a line in the sand that can’t be washed away by any tide.
The news about Simon Cowell getting it on with his good friend’s wife — or estranged wife, depending on who you talk to — has sparked a great debate once again. Crystal Crowder Crystal Crowder is a freelance writer and blogger. You’ve probably had a thing for the guy while he was with your best friend. Never, under any circumstances, try to date the ex right after they broke up. Use your best judgment and hopefully you’ll get the friend and the guy. Otherwise, she’s always going to wonder if you’re secretly trying to steal her boyfriends. Clear guidelines on when to bother with a best friend’s ex.Okay so if your former best friend has been asking for forgiveness like crazy and then turned around and started a relationship with your ex, would you find it as her being two faced or would it not bother you at all? She's enjoys writing music, poetry and fiction and hopes to have her first novel out soon.