The characters usually do terrible things to each other that would be completely unacceptable in real life but somehow end up together, probably with major trust issues if it was actually a realistic movie, but who am I to judge…?
) The truth is not everyone is lucky enough to be doing a job that they’re passionate about.
No one should judge you for that, not everyone has the luxury to love their job and pay their bills at the same time (adulting can be a cruel mistress) but you shouldn’t let those circumstances stop you from exercising your passions OUTSIDE of work.
acquired taste.) Who doesn’t want to hang out with a cute dog or cat?! Not saying you should pimp your pet out, but you got to do what you got to do. The thing to remember about online dating is that it’s all about getting to know someone, so asking if they’re an optimist or a pessimist will help you understand how they think.
Well, until humans evolve to include mind reading that is (x-men anyone?
Just today, I was on the phone with a client who was sharing the same experience with me: “It wasn’t until she showed me one really GOOD email from a guy that she started to get it.
He asked her a silly question and started grilling her with more and more trivia questions, teasing her about what she might win if she got all the questions right.
You can bond with almost anyone over any of these and it’s always interesting to find out if someone reads for leisure.
A good book, movie or song will stay with you long after it’s finished, so it’s a good way to either bond over shared interests or get new recommendations. If you’re the type of person who dreams of living in a rom com, then asking this question can help you find your leading man/lady (although honestly, why would anyone want to live in a rom com?!
This question is great for people who aren’t doing their dream job yet (I say yet because we believe in you!!
) Self-deprecation is very common (I indulge in it all too often) so this question is just the one to give the person you’re chatting to online a confidence boost.
I may email again, saying, “If you want to know anything just ask”, etc. It’s that you probably haven’t given her a compelling reason to be.